Proudest moment: Definitely it was giving birth to my sons. Other moments, since graduation, were graduating again (from School of Education, Harvard, in '63), and graduating again (from U.C.L.A., with a Ph.D. in music, in 1990). Last summer I "read a paper" at an international conference, and that was a proud moment, too.
Most memorable experiences: The broad way to write about memorable experiences is to say that they involve the extraordinary places where I've lived. First I lived in the incredibly musical environment of Cambridge, Mass. Then I lived on a beautiful hillside, canyon-side home in Palos Verdes. Starting in the mid-1980s I also spent eleven summers living in a London apartment. Now I have a home in a very exciting and musical city -- Pasadena. Add to this list the memories of the family camping and back-packing trips, mostly in the California desert and in the Sierras, and two return-visits to New Zealand in 1989 and 2001.
Pomona experiences still important: All the musical and social experiences are still important to me. The musical ones were initiated by my wonderful associations with Bill Russell. The extent of his influence on my life was brought home to me a year ago last summer, when I joined with Pomona singers in Santa Cruz to memorialize Bill Russell's life. Not only did he guide me with wisdom and humor during those four years of college, but he sent me straight into the arms of another incredible community of musicians at Cambridge. There I conducted choruses, sang in beautiful choirs, learned how to teach music to children. . . Somehow Bill Russell knew where I was going, even if I didn't.
Favorite Pomona teachers: Bill Russell. I've just explained why. Other favorites include Russell Sherman, my piano teacher for three years, and Margery Briggs, my voice teacher for four years. It is difficult to express how close one becomes to a singing teacher, a piano teacher. But studying music privately is an intimate as well as intimidating experience. They helped set my standards and created my life-long preferences for lieder, opera, and the piano music of Beethoven. Because of them, concert-going became a way of life. Remember The New York Pro Musica? Glen Gould? Dietrich Fischer-Dieskau? Although my concert-going habits were interrupted for several decades, I have resumed them, attending live performances by the LA Philharmonic and LA Opera. Leonard Pronko is another favorite professor. His insistence upon a perfect French accent and a love of the city of Paris from the onset of First Year French these influences have stayed with me. I have followed his career and have been inspired by his accomplishments in ancient Japanese theater. I want to mention Mr. Learnihan, who frightened me to death (nearly), as did Karl Kohn, on the occasion of a first harmony assignment (my first "F"). It is so reassuring now to know Karl Kohn as a friend! I feel honored to be on friendly terms with Jeannette Hypes, and with some of the new members of the Pomona department of music.
Future: I think I'm on a good course
now. No retirement yet. I'm teaching about as much as I want,
and I'm living in a great city. Im finding new friends
among groups of amateur dancers and, as a beginning dancer, indulge
myself in weekly classes in Scottish Country Dance and international
folk dance, with some ballet and yoga. This physical outlet stretches
my body and my mind, and provides therapy to balance the sad parts.
I look forward to travels in Denmark and Norway this coming August, to my younger son's wedding in September, to closer ties with both sons in the SF Bay Area and with my sister's family in Oregon. In the future I might enroll in college classes, learn to be a gardener, read more, spell better, and master this word processor. I hope I'll become a more spiritual person, and give back to those who have given so much to me. And I'm looking forward to seeing everyone at our Class of '62 Reunion!!